Care about yourself before them.

       You don't live to please others. You live to please yourself. That's the reason you were born in this world. You satisfy people by satisfying yourself or you satisfy yourself by satisfying people? Fed up of pleasing others but you? Sick of not getting what you desire? The best thing you can do is just forget about it, throw everything aside and start fresh. Don't put your hopes too high on something, it will bring you down to the ground if you fail. Yes, it's good to be confident, to have faith in you and trust. I always tell people that they must be confident because confidence is a powerful tool that brings success. I never doubt of what I said. I do believe confidence do bring success not just luck. Yet, I put my hopes too high sometime and I broke down. So what? I blame it on my luck. 

      How do you feel when you don't get any respond from others? Yeap, lonely. How do you feel when you don't get what you want? Yeap, suck. Abandoned. Is that the right word? Hmm... Nope. Ignored is the best word. When you plan something or propose something and you expect someone to reply you or accept or comment about it. However, there is nothing except you the one who posted "it". Maybe there are a few look through it and forget about it seconds later. Some will scroll and scroll and scroll, look at it and says :"Ohhh" then scroll down again. Some even worse, totally have no initiative to look at it. When it comes to them, how will they feel? They will understand when they reach the stage. For now, they just don't bother. When this happens to you, you know you just have to stop. Stop bothering it, it doesn't help you at all. No point waste your effort and time. Go do something better, something that makes you happy and worth your time and effort. So, you may "delete" the post right now. 

     Put in mind, you've tried your best and you can't do anything about it. Move on. Some people just don't know how to appreciate your piece of artwork. Wait till someone who truly appreciates it. Trust me. There will be someone. God is fair to us. You're not the only one in this world. It depends on your luck, timing, faith and of course your effort. How much effort you put into it and that's what you will get in the end. If you didn't get anything, stop and have a fresh start like what I've told you in the first place. It's alright to start all over again. I know it's difficult. It's like you have to throw years of effort, gold, time and love into the bin. From that moment, they become trash and meant to be forgotten. You may weep now. The whole box of tissue is yours. After you've done, be like a man or a woman. Wipe all the tears away and stand gracefully. Show them that you can do it, way much better than them. Show them that you're not a piece of trash, you're not useless. You're someone that everyone can count on. It might take months or years to achieve that stage. What's the big deal? Just get healed! Just get up from that useless piece of wood! Tired of everything? Sorry, life is not done yet. You're not allowed to leave. You have to stay. So, wake up and show them your inner beauty.

     Remember the ones who thank you. Remember the ones who comfort and support you. Remember the ones who raise you up. Remember the ones who make you smile. Forget the ones who go to you when they need you but flee when you need them. They are the jerks and they are not worth it. Soon, you will find out who are your true friends. It's simple. 

PS : You release tension by crying but you gain LOVE by SMILING. :)